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A news report last week quoted a doctor with It's truly painful that life has become more a burden than a pleasure. Childhood seems to have gone from the life of today's children. Today everyone is in the rat race a race where you must always win, and you can't afford to lose. Not even once. A senior doctor at the A survey by the Shanghai Women's Federation found that most of the families in the city felt constant pressure from one source or another, but social competition and work-related stress were the main sources. Among the 875 families randomly chosen, only 13 percent said they had never felt any pressure. There's pressure everywhere -- in the classroom, in family life and at the workplace. Right from early childhood, a youngster is forced into this mindless and frenetic competition. There is very little joy left in the lives of today's children. They are grimly frog-marched through grueling schedules by parents who don't want them to waste a single moment of their young lives being what they are: kids. There isn't any personal freedom for children any longer. In our increasingly paranoid times, we are reluctant to let them as much as walk to the corner shop alone, let alone take a bus to school. There was a time when we were allowed to roam free through the neighborhood with our friends with no adult around. We used to run around barefoot enjoying nature's bountiful gifts. Occasionally we scrounged around for foliage that we would chew. At times we were attacked by an odd caterpillar or a snail. We had fun and our life was stimulating. We were all left on our own. There was no pressure to perform. We used to read books. Our interaction with friends was such great fun that there was never a dull moment in our lives. There was no pressure and no over-protection. In today's over-supervised, regimented times, children are hardly left alone. They are made to chase a mission: You must win. For them, everything is a matter of life and death. Victory is all they know about. Defeat is alien to them, and strictly unacceptable. Today a child is put through enormous pressure to get admitted into a good school. And once admitted, he or she is asked to get to the top, always. The child is constantly told to achieve and achieve only. Failure thus leads to frustration and depression. Let our children have the unalloyed joys of childhood. Let the "beautiful minds" have fun. Let us encourage them to use their own creativity to devise their own entertainment. Let us create an environment in which children can cultivate their powers of imagination. Let us instill in them the confidence to accept defeat as a challenge and emerge as a better individual. Childhood is truly a magical time. Einstein said he would always like to see things through the eyes of a child. Every child is unique. Every child has potential. We just have to spark the latent talent and guide them toward a better tomorrow. ( |
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